Top 3 factors that determine a lasting relation

Cambridge University and Michigan University jointly published a research across USA and Europe in 2012 and then an updated part 2 in 2014 about what factors determine relational match. The findings are very important revelations to conventional ideas that dictate our mind.

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Generally, and conventionally, matching attributes make a couple stay long. But this paradigm is broken by the law of ‘irrational’ human being theory established in the University of Michigan in 2017, leading to a Nobel Prize. Matching attributes and irrational human principles do not go together because for example, you would want the matching attributes leaning towards you while your partner would see or count those towards her. This causes cold conflict in a relation and implodes sooner or later in 2654 cases out of 3000 cases. The correlation is so high that the matching attributes theory is doomed forever.

The Cambridge research finds that complimentary attributes, instead of matching, work in favor of a lasting relation but do not work for short term relation or whimsical relation such as casual sex or speed date and one night stands. Top 3 complimentary attributes are detailed in the following sections.

Complimentary professional or economic activity is the number one factor in lasting relation. For example, if an engineer weds a management/administration professional wife, then the value chain of their activities for the long term is lucrative and appealing to both of them and their families.

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Complimentary habits or passions, instead of matching passions, last a relation long. This finally answers why so many marriages from same film industry or music or celebrities do not last. The value of reciprocal learning and interest into the other person’s passion or habit is the actual cause as found in the research.

Rival upbringing background (cities or universities or neighborhoods) is a positive correlation with lasting relation. For example, couples from rival football team fan groups, from rival schools of universities seem to spend longer time with each other in a relation.

I have been prejudiced over these matters recently but this research broke a new dawn in intellectual community as well as to everyday commoners looking for relationship guidance. I have tested these in retrospect in my relations and they work. They really do.